An interesting story I heard a few weeks ago from a friend —
My friend has a little 3 year old granddaughter who often talks about a woman we’ll call Emily. The little granddaughter’s aunt is named Emily, so that’s who the family thought she was talking about…. until one day she also started talking about Emily’s dog, Nikki.
Her Aunt Emily does not have a dog, but her deceased great grandmother, also named Emily, did have a dog named Nikki! The family started questioning her – she had never known her great grandmother and they weren’t even sure that she’d heard anyone ever talk about her by her first name.
She described both Emily and Nikki in a way which left no doubt that she was talking about her great grandmother and her terrier! My friend also noticed that every time her granddaughter visited her home, she was drawn to things that had belonged to her great grandmother, Emily, without any knowledge that they had belonged to her or that she’d made them – such as a favorite quilt, jewelry, crafts.
Once at dinner, she commented that they needed to be sure to save a place for Emily! Also, she cautioned her grandfather that he was about to kick Nikki off the bed – he had to watch where he put his feet!
The real telling incident was when the little girl was reciting a poem, “I See the Moon and the Moon Sees Me.” My friend told her son how nice it was that he had taught her that since his grandmother (Emily) had always recited it to him when he was little.
He replied that he had never told his daughter that poem and didn’t know where she had learned it!
I asked my friend if she ever asked her granddaughter to give a message to Emily and she said yes. Once she had told the little girl to tell Emily that she loved her and missed her – – the little girl quickly and easily responded, “Oh, she knows.”!
Do you have a similar story to share?